How to Break Up With your girlfriend

There are times when you enter into a relationship “accidentally”, I do not know whether you understand what I am saying but in the real world, many people get engaged with others they really do not love. I have seen many who even proceeded to marry people they never love.

You know, there are many reasons which lead to that, some times, one partner put in a lot of pressure and it’s important not to forget the role of family members and friend. I have also seen people who fall in love just by impulse and by the next day, they try to back out yet the counterparts are just too excited to move on with the relationship.

Such relations can spoil your future and reputation, many people who may have loved may back out simply because they think you are happily in love. Therefore, if you can stop a relationship which is not working out in time, then you will save a lot. I am glad to bring to your notice the best ways how you can successfully break up with someone.

Stop pretending

There are many people who spend years in loves of pretence, they just pretend they love you yet it is not true. Just do not tell them you love them any more, tell her that you do not feel "that way"
towards her anymore. I know this is hurting on both sides but it is the best option for both of you. Every one has a right be loved by someone truly but not just as a pretence

The sex factor

Stop having sex with her some time before you finally tell them its over, Its ideally better to be two weeks or even a month before the break up, It is so rude to sleep with some one then break up with them
the next morning, this may show that your relationship was just about sex and nothing else, even though many people are tempted to “do it one more time” you should sincerely avoid it.

Start being "too busy"

This is a technique which many people have successfully applied, by default, if you cut off communication to some one, that friend ship is surely bound to fall, make sure you cut off all the hang outs since they only strengthen the bond with them. Do not call them and if they do call, politely inform them that you are busy.

Go over to her house to break up with her.

Telling some one you do not love them may result into a big embarrassment especially when you do it in public, since they may break down and cry in front of every body and this may not be good for you. This will also save you from the fear and worry of whether they will get home safely. It is also better for you since they may refuse to leave your apartment if you tell them from your home.

Reason for break up

Many times, when you try to break up with some one, they will always ask you the reason why, many reasons given are never sufficient enough to convince the “victim”. The best reason you should give is that “your feeling have changed” and you “no longer feel like you did before”, that will be hard to be argued against and chances are that you will succeed. If you tell them, there is another lover, they may try to fight back to regain your love.